Horses for courses...
True.
If you want a web/email server to be directly connected to the Internet, Blue Onyx is a better choice. That is what is designed to do[/url]
Yup, and SME was designed likewise. Hence server/gateway mode
True, it was not originally designed for VMs and cloud, but then what was 20+ years ago?
Personally I've used SME for around 20 years. I know it pretty well and it makes a decent 'secure out of the box' LAMP stack.
I've used it on real hardware of all shapes and forms, and now on VMs, in all sorts of scenarios, and it is still my distro of choice.
It is versatile, easy to configure, and pretty secure.
I wasn't looking for an alternative (I'm not interested in a long debate on what's hot or not), but thoughts on how it could be deployed as a simple LAMP stack without all the local file sharing/printing/et al for those who might be interested.
So really what services need to be running/disabled.