ok now I've some time again to manage the server. Sorry for not answering so long
first thing: I managed to reach the server online, and I think I know after trying what seems to be the problem. I switched the "passive mode" off (at fire ftp) and there it worked.
the "password incorrect" problem was that i didn't use my actual IP but the domain's online name listed in the config. Now I know that it can't work because there's no DNS-service installed in standard. But I still wonder where this message comes from, I expect to get some "page not found" reply, like if I get on any other ftp://... domain.
Now I'm trying to find out why it won't work in passive mode, if i do that the last reply is
"227 Entering Passive Mode (192,168,0,10,128,78).
LIST
"
There is no entry in the router's log file about something blocked, when I use Passive mode, and the passive mode is better for firewalls& routers anyway.
About your Questions:
I'm using a netgear router FR114p with firewall.
I actually use my Ip now for the adress, will install the DNS-service later.
Change the default FTP access permissions in server-manager is done.
what can be the reason for that?