Beast,
no one is trying to have a go at you.
Quite simply you are asking for something that is not possible with Linux written the way that it currently is.
Janet was merely making the point that there is nothing WE can do about it. What you are asking for is something that would have to be addressed WAY up stream.
Calling the current situation 'stupid' is not really the way to deal with it, however you might feel about it. Ultimately the issue lies with the apps (not SMEs fault) or Linux itself (again, not SMEs fault). Those are the places you need to go to get things changed (try calling THEM stupid !). However, remember that an app can't necessarily change permissions the way you might want them done (e.g. changing from a.user to www or apache) unless it had root access (and if you understand security you will understand this much better than me)
Your fundamental problem stems from you wanting to edit/write on files with user permissions outside the scope of a normal user. This is not really an issue for most normal users (hence you don't see thousands clamouring for change). It only becomes problematic if you want to use 'system' user permissions.
Personally, I like to know who the last person was who edited/broke a file
Yes I am sure you may well be able to do it on GApps, but that it is because it is written differently (and remember you aren't trying to save a files to a system area etc etc etc - you may find it different if you did). We can only work with what we have !
So do by all means make constructive comments, write a wiki page about it, but please don't call the issue "stupid" just because you don't like it and especially when there isn't a single thing we can about it !
B. Rgds
John